Sorry, no picture for this post.. So did you hear about this? A group of moms staged a protest outside Facebook’s Palo Alto office yesterday over the site’s policy to remove photos of bare breasts. Facebook’spolicy is to remove photos where the nipple or areola is visible. Attendees of the MILC (Mothers International Lactation Campaign) “nurse is” want an exception for breastfeeding moms..
What..? Seriously..
Heather Farley is the organizer of the “nurse in” outside Facebook’s office to change its policy & here is her open letter to the company this weekend.
Dear Facebook,
My name is Heather Farley and I am coordinating the nurse-in that will occur this Saturday. I have been using Facebook since February 2005 when Facebook was very small and young. I really enjoy using Facebook and being able to connect with friends and family easily. I think this service that Facebook has offered millions of Internet users is invaluable. However, I am upset about Facebook’s recent actions.
I wanted to outline the reasoning and purpose of the nurse-in. As you know, the group, “Hey Facebook, Breastfeeding isn’t obscene (Official Petition to Facebook)” is where this event was organized. Perhaps it seems strange to you that such a “small” issue might have so much attention. I wanted to highlight the impact that the removal of breastfeeding pictures has.
On one hand, it is a public health issue. For many years, the World Health Organization has emphasized the need for mothers to breastfeed and has set minimum standards that many countries, including the United States, still have yet to meet. They have set these standards to help prevent the significant number of deaths of infants in our world. By removing pictures of breastfeeding, the message is sent that it is something shameful, something that should be hidden and not seen. This can undermine the confidence and desire of future mothers to breastfeed their children, to the detriment of their children’s health.
On the other hand, it is an issue of discrimination against breastfeeding mothers. Like issues such as pregnancy, breastfeeding discrimination is a gender issue. When pictures are removed of breastfeeding and not of artificial feeding, breastfeeding mothers are being discriminated against and a wrongful double standard is set. After all, a bottle is simply a plastic, prosthetic disembodied breast in size, form, and function. Additionally, many groups such as the Ontario Human Rights Commission have stated that breastfeeding right issues are human rights issues and that discrimination against a breastfeeding mother is discrimination of her rights.
It is also a public relations and customer service issue. There are more than 60,000 people in the group, “Hey Facebook…” The statements that Facebook does not plan on considering changing the policies about breastfeeding images gives the impression that the opinion of those 60,000 Facebook users is unimportant and inconsequential. However, 60,000 people are not inconsequential and Facebook’s reply of no action may in the future result in the loss of Facebook users and customers.
I do understand that Facebook needs to prevent and eliminate pornography on the site. It might not appear possible to have a user agreement that disallows sexually explicit pictures while allowing pictures of mothers breastfeeding. I want to suggest that this is possible- and such a user agreement is my goal in this nurse-in. I would like Facebook to change their policy to something resembling, “photos containing nudity, drug use, or other obscene content are not allowed, except in the case of a mother nursing a child.” If Facebook added such a clause, pornographic and sexually explicit images could be removed without discrimination occurring towards mothers and babies.
I hope that Facebook will reconsider their position and listen to this group of 60,000, for the benefit of babies and for the rights of mothers.
Personally I am a fan of boob feeding.. but seriously, this mom wants Facebook to change their policy to “Photos where the nipple or areola is visible is NOT allowed except for when breastfeeding.”.. Well…. this holds a personal tune to me because I recently weened my one year old from my boob & while the struggles to finally get my toddler to use a cup rather then a nipple, I got many comments from people talking about how they know someone who breast fed their toddler until they were (clinch)”6,5,12″ years old. So if Facebook were to change its policy, which I highly doubt, are they going to put an age requirement? “Photos where the nipple and aerota is in view except when breastfeeding a baby under the age of 6 months..?” Is it really appropriate to have a 12 year old breastfeeding a big boob broad-casted on Facebook? And REALLY is it really necessary to have ANY pictures of moms boob feeding their babies on facebook to help promote breastfeed??!? Those 60,000 members of her crazy group “Hey Facebook..” are only members because they think it is funny & completly absurd.. These nutty moms with their crazy boob movements give other normal boob feeding moms a bad rep and can definitely turn off breast feeding, which of course, is the opposite of their cause.
Oh Facebook & social technology.. what is this world coming to?